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Unlocking major truths, BY YUNG PUEBLO A lot of personal growth can emerge from the new relationship you develop between you and yourself. But

the golden key
this process becomes much more efficient when you pick up a new practice that helps you navigate through
of
personal picking up a meditation practice can help streamline the journey of getting to know yourself. Find a practice
whatever you are encountering within yourself. Anything from journaling to finding a good therapist to
that is challenging but not overwhelming—it should be hard enough that it helps you grow but not too hard
that you don’t want to put in the work. It should be something that connects with your intuition and feels
like it is worth your time. The golden key is that you don’t need to reinvent the wheel when it comes to your
self-discovery; you simply need to find a method that works for you and gives real results.

Getting serious about your personal growth creates waves of change in your personal life. It will help you
build boundaries in places where you used to fall into familiar patterns of people-pleasing. It will help you
figure out what your real aspirations are, as opposed to following what society has taught you to want. It
will also help you stay aligned with your values and speak up for them whenever necessary. The people you

and how you show up for life will look and feel different. Coming through to the other side of your inner
transformation will help you be more intentional about using your energy like a precious resource. TA

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Y ANDERSON WINTER 20 Regardless of where you are in your personal growth journey, Small steps make a difference Y ANDERSON WINTER 20
WHENEVER YOU ARE STUCK ON THE PATH TO SELF-DISCOVERY,
USE THESE 11 REMINDERS TO HELP GROUND YOU AS YOU MOVE FORWARD:

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it’s important to understand a few pillars of truth.
First, that your life is shaped by your mind.

C And second, that your emotional history has a huge impact on your actions. Forcing it doesn’t work, let it go C
TRA Letting your old burdens and hurt sit within you without ever being addressed actually gives power to your Making time for rest is a top priority TRA
past. If living a better life is what you desire, then you have no other option but to go on an inward journey.
If you really want to reclaim your power, you need to get to know who you are and what behavioral pat-
terns you have accumulated throughout your life. Understanding what has shaped you and how you react Embracing change builds your peace
to life is the start of healing yourself.
Be kind but don’t be a people pleaser
Self-awareness is the nutritious soil that nourishes the seeds of peace and growth. By turning your attention
inward, you can start studying your emotional movements. This will help you become familiar with your
ups and downs. Instead of noticing your inner turbulence once it is blazing, you will be able to see what Build with emotionally mature people
actually ignites the fire. Self-awareness slows down the blind reactions that used to take over when times
were tough. It also helps create a space within you where you can process what is happening and choose Let go of the past and be in the present
the action that skillfully responds to the situation at hand. Self-awareness will help you see where you need
to grow and what positive habits you should spend time cultivating.
Build habits that support your happiness
Personal growth is not just the moment where you decide to embrace your evolution. It is when you finally
declare within yourself that you are ready to enter into maturity. To do so, you have to have the strength Let go of competition and just be yourself
to connect with your past in the hopes of removing the limits it has placed on your present and future.
Through the road of acceptance, you can travel your inner forest and intentionally embrace hard parts of
your story with self-love. Nothing can change the past, but you can release the tension you are carrying Your healing will improve your relationships
because of it.